Ambitions as a Writer

Learning to fall in love, learning what true love is, learning to listen to your instincts is a part of growing up. I aware that Im young but dont you ever say that I dont know what love is because in reality, we are all in search of the true definition of it. Like the man behind the “airplanes” once stated before that shit blew up; “If I had to chose her or the son, Id be one nocturnal son-of-a-gun”. What do you do when the person that unintentionally hurts you the most is the person that intentionally brings you the most happiness? For me, Id keep her because the happiness she brings me is greater than anything she has put me through. A strong relationship is based on a firm foundation of talking, becoming comfortable for one another and most importantly, compromises. Think of it as a long roadtrip. Give one another their space and work out some rules that must not be crossed and in the end, you have a successful trip with minimal to no arguments. On the other hand, if you were to intrude on each others personal space and once you dont feel comfortable with one another, thats when things go bad. Another element of a relationship is sacrifices; meaning that yes, some of you guys out there MUST give up your Call of Duty and spend time with your significant other and I expect the girls to be willing to put off their tv shows and internet and go out and get to know one another. The thing that I found out about relationships is the fact that you learn something about one another every day. Its in your best interest to find out what bugs him or her before you worry about making them happy. When youre faced with problems, solve them as soon as possible being completely honest and straight-to-the point. No sugar-coating the situation because they wont completely understand what is wrong. Although it varies from person to person, I believe that its best to hurt the person being truthful than to lose them to words unspoken. If theres anything that anyone should realize in life, its the fact that you can always put things off but time waits for no one. Inevitably, time runs out for all things even when youre doing your best to prolong it.

posted on 27.07.10